"Love is absence of judgement"
there is a desire in teen years when you "want" to be loved. this desire cannot be fulfilled by the love of mother, father or brother. this desire can only be fulfilled when someone completely stranger to you enters your life and loves you inside out.
now, to fulfill this weird desire, there are a lot many things we do.
first and foremost- Crushing
everybody have a crush. be it a celebrity one or a guy from your class. you could either develop a crush on someone with good looks or the way they talk. in my case its the way of talking. the moment you fully developed a crush on someone is the moment when you will be feeling all those butterflies and chills. firstly you will start stalking your crush badly. very badly. then time will come when you could write an autobiography on your crush because you know too much about them . but, the negative thing here is ....you are scared to talk to them.
then comes the second stage - The talk
you being scared to talk to them doesn't mean that you wont make any effort to talk to them. you will find ways to get close to them. you would volunteer to be paired with them or anything. you don't want to miss any chance. then after too much volunteering , the time will come when they will be the one starting the conversation.... not you.
third and my favourite stage- flirting
as you both started talking, there are some instances where you flirt unknowingly. then as the conversation goes on. you both start flirting knowingly. commenting on each and every single picture of theirs, sending them hearts or kisses even if there is no need for so. everything you both say makes both of your hearts flatter.
the fourth stage- dreaming
all the flirting done by you causes you to day dream a lot. you start to dream about your life with them. they are constantly in your mind. you start to think how it would be like to be their girlfriend or you start to dream about kissing them. everything you will do will remind you of them.
the final stage-proposal
if things go very well,then there are chances for them to propose you first. the moment they do so your whole world will become a paradise. you will feel like you are on cloud nine. everything will be perfect for you both
but there is a chance where you are the one proposing them first. you will write a sweet message to them and then you will constantly wait for their reply. the moment they will say yes, you will feel like doing victory dance........if the reply turns out to be negative, then your whole expectations will come crashing down in front of your eyes. you will feel hurt. you will feel like crying.
in the end, everything will turn out well. you will forget about them and you will start looking for another one.
journalteenage@gmail.com
write to me if you are going through something. we will sort things out.
you can give me new ideas about my blog and also tell me how do you find my blog.
there is a desire in teen years when you "want" to be loved. this desire cannot be fulfilled by the love of mother, father or brother. this desire can only be fulfilled when someone completely stranger to you enters your life and loves you inside out.
now, to fulfill this weird desire, there are a lot many things we do.
first and foremost- Crushing
everybody have a crush. be it a celebrity one or a guy from your class. you could either develop a crush on someone with good looks or the way they talk. in my case its the way of talking. the moment you fully developed a crush on someone is the moment when you will be feeling all those butterflies and chills. firstly you will start stalking your crush badly. very badly. then time will come when you could write an autobiography on your crush because you know too much about them . but, the negative thing here is ....you are scared to talk to them.
then comes the second stage - The talk
you being scared to talk to them doesn't mean that you wont make any effort to talk to them. you will find ways to get close to them. you would volunteer to be paired with them or anything. you don't want to miss any chance. then after too much volunteering , the time will come when they will be the one starting the conversation.... not you.
third and my favourite stage- flirting
as you both started talking, there are some instances where you flirt unknowingly. then as the conversation goes on. you both start flirting knowingly. commenting on each and every single picture of theirs, sending them hearts or kisses even if there is no need for so. everything you both say makes both of your hearts flatter.
the fourth stage- dreaming
all the flirting done by you causes you to day dream a lot. you start to dream about your life with them. they are constantly in your mind. you start to think how it would be like to be their girlfriend or you start to dream about kissing them. everything you will do will remind you of them.
the final stage-proposal
if things go very well,then there are chances for them to propose you first. the moment they do so your whole world will become a paradise. you will feel like you are on cloud nine. everything will be perfect for you both
but there is a chance where you are the one proposing them first. you will write a sweet message to them and then you will constantly wait for their reply. the moment they will say yes, you will feel like doing victory dance........if the reply turns out to be negative, then your whole expectations will come crashing down in front of your eyes. you will feel hurt. you will feel like crying.
in the end, everything will turn out well. you will forget about them and you will start looking for another one.
journalteenage@gmail.com
write to me if you are going through something. we will sort things out.
you can give me new ideas about my blog and also tell me how do you find my blog.
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