Live life the way you want

there are times in life where you feel like crying or giving up or just leaving everything and go somewhere where you cannot be found. you are done with solving every problem life throws at you. there is frustration in you which either comes out as anger or tears or sometimes both. you want to break things or do anything to get that anger out of your body. You feel like you are not made for this world,nobody loves you and what not.

Due to certain reasons, there are many people who cry themselves to sleep. Not once a month or twice but every night.  These people are not weak or have a emotional Heart.  These people are the strongest ones. Others may get a shoulder to cry on,  but the late night cries comes out when you feel like there is no one for you. This scenario not only happens with girls but boys suffer from this too. The most popular guy of your school might cry himself to sleep because he might not have any true friends. All he have is a group of people who want to become his friends because of his popularity. Or a girl who acts tough might cry herself to sleep because people say that way she speaks,loud and bold, sounds like a boy. 

Its people's job to judge others. No one, not even you,  could complete a day without judging. Its for the victims of these judgement how to get over these judgemental comments. Crying might help you but changing yourself just because of morons is useless. One should live a life the way he/she wants. No one should ever interfere in your dream life. If I get over from all the rumours or all the comments that were there about me,  so could you. 

Best friends are like human diaries

"Things get less scary when you are with best friends"


According to Wikipedia best friends may refer to "someone who shares the strongest bond of friendship with you." But for me, the definition is incomplete.
Best friends,according to me, are those you are your human diaries. they are someone with whom you can be yourself. someone who is there to help you to move on from your ex or someone who tells you how to solve fights with your partner. they are those kind of people who agree with you even when you sound stupid. they don't let you do things alone. they are always there for you.
not only this, they are always there to protect you. they always stand by your side. even if you don't need help, they will help you. they are those people that knows darkest of your secrets because they are trustworthy more than anyone. they will do anything to make you feel "YOU". they will cheer you up when you are sad over something. they will go and fight with the person who hurt you. they will even give you suggestions on how could you go and talk to your crush with sounding too clingy. not only them, you will also do the same. you will do anything for your best friend.
this feeling of friendship is something you wont get from anyone else. not from your mother or your father or your brother or your sister or even your boyfriend or girlfriend. having a best friend in life is as important as having food. one could never survive without a best friend no matter how good the conditions are with him. 

Can you trust someone who trust your enemy?

"Trust no friend with that you need to fear him if he was your enemy"    
                                                                                                                     -George Herbert

Don't everyone just hate it when your best friend is being friendly to your enemy or the person whom you dislike the most? This feeling is the most annoying feeling in the world. You feel like you want to break everything into tiny pieces. You feel like punching the your friend. Moreover you feel like punching yourself because you think there is something you lack which is the reason why your bestie goes and talk to the most hated person, or a group of people, according to you.She just goes and vomits everything to the hated person or group that you feel like they have things can they can use against you. Sometimes its not only just one person who you hate the most, but its the whole group of your best friend's friends that you hate. There could be many reasons behind it:
1. You feel jealous- jealously does not only happens in relationships, it can make its way anywhere. jealously in friendship occurs when your best friend goes and talks to someone you hate or a group of people you hate. You feel left out. You feel like the person or the group ,who was a stranger yesterday, is taking your place in your best friends life. You feel like you are not important anymore to your bestie because your bestie is telling those things to the hated stranger or the hated group that she should be telling to you
2. something happened with them in your past- maybe you picked up a fight with someone or maybe your ex, you hate the person for what he did to you in past. This kind of hate is the strongest one. In this when your best friend goes and talks to the hated group, the volcano that was dormant, suddenly erupts and you are angry within a spilt second. This anger grows even more when your best friend is laughing or enjoying with them, more than she does with you
These are the indicators that you should go and console your best friend about how you feel about a specific person or a group of people. If your best friend understands your feeling behind it then its good for both of you. but if she don't, then its time to fine new best friend. 

Is it a Fairy Tale?

"Once a while, right in the middle of ordinary life, love gives you a fairy tale."

That is the quote which perfectly describes how love is. One day everyone will meets their price charming who will treat you like a princess. That day will be the day when your ordinary life will be a fairy tale.

Love is one of the most wonderful feelings one can ever experience. To love and desire to be loved are the basic human traits. Everyone is in search for true love. Some find it early, some may find it late, but everybody do find it. 

There are different circumstances where people find the one and only for them. Some might find it in the library, some might find it in a party, some in the cafeteria, and someone’s friend might have told them, some on the internet, and some in school and so on. The moment you find the one you feel different. The way you talk to them is the way you never thought you would ever talk like. Whenever they will say your name you will feel butterflies fluttering in you. You will care about them more than you do about you. Whenever they will get a minor bruise, you will be the one feeling more pain than them. You will feel like your whole world revolves around them. Everything they do, makes you love them more. You love every flaw of theirs. You will find them perfect without flaws. You will do anything to make them happy as seeing them happy will make you happier. Everything you will do will be just for them.

Not only you but they will also be there for you and it would be easily visible. They will know more about you than you do about yourself. They will know how to make you happy. They will show that they care about you in every way possible. They will fight demons for you. They will do anything just to protect you and be with you. 

The moment you find you prince charming, you will enter a fairy tale of your own.

do you like me?

"Love is absence of judgement"

there is a desire in teen years when you "want" to be loved. this desire cannot be fulfilled by the love of mother, father or brother. this desire can only be fulfilled when someone completely stranger to you enters your life and loves you inside out.
now, to fulfill this weird desire, there are a lot many things we do.
first and foremost- Crushing
everybody have a crush. be it a celebrity one or a guy from your class. you could either develop a crush on someone with good looks or the way they talk. in my case its the way of talking. the moment you fully developed a crush on someone is the moment when you will be feeling all those butterflies and chills. firstly you will start stalking your crush badly. very badly. then time will come when you could write an autobiography on your crush because you know too much about them . but, the negative thing here is ....you are scared to talk to them.
then comes the second stage - The talk
you being scared to talk to them doesn't mean that you wont make any effort to talk to them. you will find ways to get close to them. you would volunteer to be paired with them or anything. you don't want to miss any chance. then after too much volunteering , the time will come when they will be the one starting the conversation.... not you.
third and my favourite stage- flirting
as you both started talking, there are some instances where you flirt unknowingly. then as the conversation goes on. you both start flirting knowingly. commenting on each and every single picture of theirs, sending them hearts or kisses even if there is no need for so. everything you both say makes both of your hearts flatter.
the fourth stage- dreaming
all the flirting done by you causes you to day dream a lot. you start to dream about your life with them. they are constantly in your mind. you start to think how it would be like to be their girlfriend or you start to dream about kissing them. everything you will do will remind you of them.
the final stage-proposal
if things go very well,then there are chances for them to propose you first. the moment they do so your whole world will become a paradise. you will feel like you are on cloud nine. everything will be perfect for you both
but there is a chance where you are the one proposing them first. you will write a sweet message to them and then you will constantly wait for their reply. the moment they will say yes, you will feel like doing victory dance........if the reply turns out to be negative, then your whole expectations will come crashing down in front of your eyes. you will feel hurt. you will feel like crying.
in the end, everything will turn out well. you will forget about them and you will start looking for another one.

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HAPPY NEW YEAR FOR ALL!!

NEW YEAR
NEW START
AND
WAY TO GO!
happy amazing new year all
new year means forgetting all the problems of the past year and starting new. new year means stepping into a new chapter of your life. its your life's chapter so it depends upon you how you should write it, who you should invite in your chapter and everything you want to do you should.

many of you have new year resolutions. I have none. I don't know why I don't have any but its the first time I have no new year resolutions. i had no idea what i should make as a resolution. i was out of ideas.

I hope you new years resolutions come true and hope you have a good and amazing new year.

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Road Trips

ALL I NEED IS AN OPEN ROAD AND A GOOD PLAYLIST

ROAD TRIPS- The best way to remove stress is to go on a road trip. Going on a road trip means forgetting all the problems and enjoying yourself. road trips are fun. you could go anywhere in car cheaply. you could bang your head with the beats of music while its on full volume. you could discover new roads and ways to get to your undecided destination. having an road trip with undecided destination is more fun as compared to an decided destination one. road trips are unpredictable, unstructured and  offers a better chance of adventures. going on a road trip with friends helps in bonding. family will become a bigger priority. you could play pranks on your friends while they have drifted to sleep. you could draw a moustache or cover the face with whip cream or ketchup. Road trips are human safaris. while in a plane you could not see the beauty but in a car during a road trip you could see the natures beauty. so one should keep a camera handy while on a road trip. road trips cant be delayed. traffic? Who cares. all you got to do is enjoy yourselves.

It's not always about the destinantion...journey is what matters the most...and road-trips let you soak in all the beauty along the way. Now you don't have to miss that water-fall on your way, just stop your car and enjoy a little before hitting the road again.make the most of it and hit the road in that car!
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