Best friends are like human diaries

"Things get less scary when you are with best friends"


According to Wikipedia best friends may refer to "someone who shares the strongest bond of friendship with you." But for me, the definition is incomplete.
Best friends,according to me, are those you are your human diaries. they are someone with whom you can be yourself. someone who is there to help you to move on from your ex or someone who tells you how to solve fights with your partner. they are those kind of people who agree with you even when you sound stupid. they don't let you do things alone. they are always there for you.
not only this, they are always there to protect you. they always stand by your side. even if you don't need help, they will help you. they are those people that knows darkest of your secrets because they are trustworthy more than anyone. they will do anything to make you feel "YOU". they will cheer you up when you are sad over something. they will go and fight with the person who hurt you. they will even give you suggestions on how could you go and talk to your crush with sounding too clingy. not only them, you will also do the same. you will do anything for your best friend.
this feeling of friendship is something you wont get from anyone else. not from your mother or your father or your brother or your sister or even your boyfriend or girlfriend. having a best friend in life is as important as having food. one could never survive without a best friend no matter how good the conditions are with him. 

Can you trust someone who trust your enemy?

"Trust no friend with that you need to fear him if he was your enemy"    
                                                                                                                     -George Herbert

Don't everyone just hate it when your best friend is being friendly to your enemy or the person whom you dislike the most? This feeling is the most annoying feeling in the world. You feel like you want to break everything into tiny pieces. You feel like punching the your friend. Moreover you feel like punching yourself because you think there is something you lack which is the reason why your bestie goes and talk to the most hated person, or a group of people, according to you.She just goes and vomits everything to the hated person or group that you feel like they have things can they can use against you. Sometimes its not only just one person who you hate the most, but its the whole group of your best friend's friends that you hate. There could be many reasons behind it:
1. You feel jealous- jealously does not only happens in relationships, it can make its way anywhere. jealously in friendship occurs when your best friend goes and talks to someone you hate or a group of people you hate. You feel left out. You feel like the person or the group ,who was a stranger yesterday, is taking your place in your best friends life. You feel like you are not important anymore to your bestie because your bestie is telling those things to the hated stranger or the hated group that she should be telling to you
2. something happened with them in your past- maybe you picked up a fight with someone or maybe your ex, you hate the person for what he did to you in past. This kind of hate is the strongest one. In this when your best friend goes and talks to the hated group, the volcano that was dormant, suddenly erupts and you are angry within a spilt second. This anger grows even more when your best friend is laughing or enjoying with them, more than she does with you
These are the indicators that you should go and console your best friend about how you feel about a specific person or a group of people. If your best friend understands your feeling behind it then its good for both of you. but if she don't, then its time to fine new best friend. 

Is it a Fairy Tale?

"Once a while, right in the middle of ordinary life, love gives you a fairy tale."

That is the quote which perfectly describes how love is. One day everyone will meets their price charming who will treat you like a princess. That day will be the day when your ordinary life will be a fairy tale.

Love is one of the most wonderful feelings one can ever experience. To love and desire to be loved are the basic human traits. Everyone is in search for true love. Some find it early, some may find it late, but everybody do find it. 

There are different circumstances where people find the one and only for them. Some might find it in the library, some might find it in a party, some in the cafeteria, and someone’s friend might have told them, some on the internet, and some in school and so on. The moment you find the one you feel different. The way you talk to them is the way you never thought you would ever talk like. Whenever they will say your name you will feel butterflies fluttering in you. You will care about them more than you do about you. Whenever they will get a minor bruise, you will be the one feeling more pain than them. You will feel like your whole world revolves around them. Everything they do, makes you love them more. You love every flaw of theirs. You will find them perfect without flaws. You will do anything to make them happy as seeing them happy will make you happier. Everything you will do will be just for them.

Not only you but they will also be there for you and it would be easily visible. They will know more about you than you do about yourself. They will know how to make you happy. They will show that they care about you in every way possible. They will fight demons for you. They will do anything just to protect you and be with you. 

The moment you find you prince charming, you will enter a fairy tale of your own.

do you like me?

"Love is absence of judgement"

there is a desire in teen years when you "want" to be loved. this desire cannot be fulfilled by the love of mother, father or brother. this desire can only be fulfilled when someone completely stranger to you enters your life and loves you inside out.
now, to fulfill this weird desire, there are a lot many things we do.
first and foremost- Crushing
everybody have a crush. be it a celebrity one or a guy from your class. you could either develop a crush on someone with good looks or the way they talk. in my case its the way of talking. the moment you fully developed a crush on someone is the moment when you will be feeling all those butterflies and chills. firstly you will start stalking your crush badly. very badly. then time will come when you could write an autobiography on your crush because you know too much about them . but, the negative thing here is ....you are scared to talk to them.
then comes the second stage - The talk
you being scared to talk to them doesn't mean that you wont make any effort to talk to them. you will find ways to get close to them. you would volunteer to be paired with them or anything. you don't want to miss any chance. then after too much volunteering , the time will come when they will be the one starting the conversation.... not you.
third and my favourite stage- flirting
as you both started talking, there are some instances where you flirt unknowingly. then as the conversation goes on. you both start flirting knowingly. commenting on each and every single picture of theirs, sending them hearts or kisses even if there is no need for so. everything you both say makes both of your hearts flatter.
the fourth stage- dreaming
all the flirting done by you causes you to day dream a lot. you start to dream about your life with them. they are constantly in your mind. you start to think how it would be like to be their girlfriend or you start to dream about kissing them. everything you will do will remind you of them.
the final stage-proposal
if things go very well,then there are chances for them to propose you first. the moment they do so your whole world will become a paradise. you will feel like you are on cloud nine. everything will be perfect for you both
but there is a chance where you are the one proposing them first. you will write a sweet message to them and then you will constantly wait for their reply. the moment they will say yes, you will feel like doing victory dance........if the reply turns out to be negative, then your whole expectations will come crashing down in front of your eyes. you will feel hurt. you will feel like crying.
in the end, everything will turn out well. you will forget about them and you will start looking for another one.

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HAPPY NEW YEAR FOR ALL!!

NEW YEAR
NEW START
AND
WAY TO GO!
happy amazing new year all
new year means forgetting all the problems of the past year and starting new. new year means stepping into a new chapter of your life. its your life's chapter so it depends upon you how you should write it, who you should invite in your chapter and everything you want to do you should.

many of you have new year resolutions. I have none. I don't know why I don't have any but its the first time I have no new year resolutions. i had no idea what i should make as a resolution. i was out of ideas.

I hope you new years resolutions come true and hope you have a good and amazing new year.

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Road Trips

ALL I NEED IS AN OPEN ROAD AND A GOOD PLAYLIST

ROAD TRIPS- The best way to remove stress is to go on a road trip. Going on a road trip means forgetting all the problems and enjoying yourself. road trips are fun. you could go anywhere in car cheaply. you could bang your head with the beats of music while its on full volume. you could discover new roads and ways to get to your undecided destination. having an road trip with undecided destination is more fun as compared to an decided destination one. road trips are unpredictable, unstructured and  offers a better chance of adventures. going on a road trip with friends helps in bonding. family will become a bigger priority. you could play pranks on your friends while they have drifted to sleep. you could draw a moustache or cover the face with whip cream or ketchup. Road trips are human safaris. while in a plane you could not see the beauty but in a car during a road trip you could see the natures beauty. so one should keep a camera handy while on a road trip. road trips cant be delayed. traffic? Who cares. all you got to do is enjoy yourselves.

It's not always about the destinantion...journey is what matters the most...and road-trips let you soak in all the beauty along the way. Now you don't have to miss that water-fall on your way, just stop your car and enjoy a little before hitting the road again.make the most of it and hit the road in that car!
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JEALOUSY

JEALOUSY IS A DISEASE.......GET WELL SOON
JEALOUSY-Everyone gets jealous. Some get jealous of other peoples money. some get jealous of other peoples relationships. kids get jealous of other peoples toys. students get jealous of other peoples marks. Everyone have something to get jealous of.
I feel jealous when someone is with my best friend and my best friend is spending more time with someone else instead of me. I feel sad. I feel jealous of the person with whom my best friend is spending time with. I feel like I have done something wrong. but at the end everything is fine.

if you face the same thing. If your best friend is also spending time with someone else then no need to feel jealous, just go and ask her that have you done something wrong? if the person is your best friend he/she will not hesitate to answer you why is he/she spending more time with other people.

other thing I get jealous of is when someone is being all flirty with my boyfriend even is she knows that he is my boyfriend. I start doubting my boyfriend and then we end up having a fight.

if you also saw someone flirting with your boyfriend, don't hesitate to ask him about the truth. if he truly loves you he will tell you everything honestly.

jealously is something that destroys everything, so instead of being jealous go to person and clear things out.

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Enemy or Fake Friend?

"HAVING ENEMY THAT ATTACKES YOU FROM BEHIND IS BETTER THAN A FAKE FRIEND WHO IS PUTTING YOU DOWN SECRETLY"
Enemy or Fake Friend?-we all have friends, best friends, enemies and those kinds of friends who you hate. A friend is someone who you love but if you hate someone how could that person be called your friend? That's where come the fake friend. We all have that one fake friend who is supporting us in our happiness but goes to Narnia when we are sad. Everyone has one fake friend but how would we get to know that our friend is actually a friend or a fake friend?

While talking to the person who you suspect to be your fake friend ask yourself few questions. If the person says I care about you then ask yourself where was that person when you were ill? Or where was that person when you were going through a massive break up? If the person says I am happy for you ask yourself is the person really happy or she is just saying for your sake? You could also notice that when you call your fake friend is she always busy or she has time for you.
Fake friends are of various kinds. Like some friends hate you from the beginning but since you are rich they are still your friends or you the most popular person in school so that's why they are your friends. One reason might be that you get good grades or have a nice impression on every teacher.

A person is always alert of the moves made by his enemies, ready to defend himself from any attack, emotionally or physically, from them. With friends, it’s the matter of trust. There is no curtain on emotions and weakness in front of friends, we are totally open to them and if these friends turn out to be fake- to be foe than they can hurt us most deeply, the wounds that last for life.

Don’t fear the enemy that attacks you but the fake friend that hugs you!

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I am a TOMBOY and I am PROUD OF IT

INSECURITY KILLS ALL THAT IS BEAUTIFUL
Insecurity - the thing everyone has. everyone has something to be insecure. some are insecure about their weight, their looks, their age, their height, eye color etc. everyone feel insecure.

even I do. I feel insecure about the way I speak, the way I walk, the way I dress. I am a tom boy. I don't like pinks, floral skirts and few other girly things. the students in my school use to make fun of me by saying 'its not she, its he".  students used to say that I act like this because I want to get closer to boys. students used to say I am a pig because I eat a lot. all these things started to get me. I started feeling insecure about me. so I started dressing more like a girl. wearing heels instead of sneakers or wearing a pink dress. doing all these things made me feel uncomfortable. nothing changed doing all these things. even though I started wearing heels and pink dresses, the talking behind my back was still on. now the students used to say that i dress like that to impress boys. they even used to say that i am only doing this to show off. so nothing changed. i felt like if nothings going to change why should i? i again became a tomboy and ignored what other people were saying.

Insecurity is one of the aspect that a person would probably fall. They tried to be something they never used before and tries to compete among others. insecurity looses self-confidence and will make a person pathetic or paranoid but insecurities has always cure just try to love oneself.

 

 

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Scares me to death

CONQUER FEAR BEFORE IT SCARES YOU

FEAR- The fear I will be talking about is not fear of spiders, fear of heights, fear of dark etc. the fear I will be talking about is the fear of loosing something or someone.

There are things in life that no one want to lose. Like there is a favourite pair of sock that is important or there is a t-shirt that you love more than any other clothing. There are the things that means a lot to you ignoring the fact that how old they are or how torn they are. You get feelings for clothes.

And if you lost your favourite you feel anguished. You start searching for them everywhere in the house. You start throwing the pillows. You mess the bedsheets. You start tossing things here and there. All you want to do is to find your favourite no matter what happens.

This is one kind of fear I am scared of. I have a dress that I love more than anything. I keep a check on it to make sure there. And when I don't find it in the correct place, i feel snappy.

This is one kind of fear.the other kind id losing someone

Now this is a kind of fear that scares me to death.

There are people who mean a lot to you and when you loose them you feel like you want to die.be it anyone you love your parents, your siblings or even your crush. The fear of loosing all of them is worst. You feel downhearted when your parents stop talking to your. Or you feel gloomy after a fight with your sibling. You feel glum or low spirited when you have had a fight with your crush and you both stopped talking.

For me the worst fear is losing my father. i feel awfully miserable when he scolds me and stops talking to me. the feeling is even worse than a break up.


Loosing is a part of life, When you start loosing that means you are going the correct way.


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Its all about MUSIC

"MUSIC LEADS TO YOUR OWN WORLD,ESCAPING THE WORLD OF PROBLEMS"
Music is the best thing invented by man so far. It helps you in forgetting your problems. The support music gives or the way music helps is something that no one could ever do. The aura crated by music is so beautiful that it make you feel like you are flying. If you go deeply into music, you would not feel yourself. Music boosts you and you get interest in doing your work. In fact I am currently listening to music and I am just writing whatever I feel right now.
No matter how heartbroken you are, music is always there for you.
If I am happy and I listen to music, it doubles my happiness. If I am sad and I listen to music, it makes me cheerful. No matter what you feel, music will always make you happy.
There are so many things music can do. It decreases the stress. Music keeps you relaxed. Music even decreases headaches. Music is a gift created by man that people appreciate. You could be problem less and stress-free. All you need to do is pull out your headphones with iPod and let music find the solution of your problem.

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About my Blog

TEENAGE JOURNAL - As the name says it is about teens. This blog will be about how I am my teenage years. the mistakes I am doing, the achievements I am getting , and the problems I am facing as a teenager. I think I am starting this blog at correct stage as I just started my teen years. Its for all those who are 13 are being told to focus on their future, for all those who are being told to focus on studies, to focus on what they have to become when they grow old. believe me everyone faces the same things as one enters teenage. The pressure suddenly increases. No one prepares you about the pressure of teenage. I am only 13 and I feel like I am done with my life already. As you enter teen you have to pull up your socks up and you don't have to let them do down. One big mistake and you down in dump. Everyone will ask you questions, everyone will start giving you free advices. You will get confused. With all this confusion going, some of you will also have "crush" on the cute boy in your math class that will distract you.

i will be blogging about all the problems as a teenager i face in my day to day life, so that when you come across the same problem you already have a solution. I also like reading books so I would also be writing about the books.

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